'People should stop staring and start learning': World's ‘ugliest woman’ gives courageous interview

Lizzie Velasquez was born without any adipose tissue, meaning she does not have body fat and cannot gain weight. The 23-year-old reveals she has been bullied by strangers online. Despite this she says she would not want to look like a beautiful celebrity. She has been ridiculed, stared at in the street and called 'the world's ugliest woman' by insensitive cyber bullies. 

But, after years of misery and self doubt, Lizzie Velasquez says she can finally shrug off the hurtful comments about her looks as 'just words'. Miss Velasquez, from Austin, Texas, was born without adipose tissue - meaning she has no body fat and, despite eating up to 60 small meals a day, remains at a delicate 4.4stone (58lbs).

Battle: Lizzie Velasquez says she has had to face being stared at and bullied because of her unusual looks

The rare condition still baffles doctors and is thought to affect just two other people worldwide. Miss Velazquez has now written a second book about her struggle to be accepted and hopes it will help others in a similar position. 

In Be Beautiful, Be You the 23-year-old college senior shares advice on being unique, how to make and keep good friends and how to deal with bullying and negativity. Speaking to Dr Drew Pinsky on Tuesday night about her experiences, Miss Velasquez said when cyber bullies first started attacking her online it was hard.

Rare: Miss Velasquez was born without any adipose tissue, meaning she has no body fat and, despite eating up to 60 small meals a day, remains at a delicate 4.4stone (58lbs)

THE SYNDROME SO RARE IT REMAINS UNDIAGNOSED

Lizzie Velasquez was born without adipose tissue, meaning she has no body fat and, despite eating up to 60 small meals a day, remains at a delicate 4.4stone (58lbs). Her syndrome is so rare that to this day it remains undiagnosed. Besides Miss Velasquez there are only two other people in the world known to suffer from the condition. The main symptom is the inability to gain weight. Miss Velasquez is also blind in one eye and has limited vision in the other.

The 23-year-old says her condition is particularly puzzling because it takes on aspects of other syndromes, including progeria. Miss Velasquez says she has the pointed nose, small mouth and ageing skin of someone with progeria but her syndrome is not though to be terminal. As she says on her website her condition is 'just one big mystery', but she remains hopeful that one day doctors will discover just what it is and how to treat it.

She told Dr Drew: 'I'm human... of course these things are going to hurt... (but) I'm not going to let those things define me.'

Eventually Miss Velasquez realised the people issuing the hurtful comments online were just cowards hiding behind a computer screen. 

'At the end of the day, these are just words,' Miss Velasquez told Dr Drew. 'If they are so proud, then they should show their face.'

When asked how she deals with being constantly stared at in the street Miss Velasquez said: 'I'm starting to want to go up to these people and introduce myself or give them my card and say, "Hi, I'm Lizzie - maybe you should stop staring and start learning".'

Miss Velasquez also revealed she does not have any desire to look like a beautiful celebrity. She said: 'I feel I'm really glad I don't look like the celebrities out there who are beautiful, because there are a lot of stereotypes attached to that. 

'People think "she's so pretty, she must be really dumb". Since I don't look like that it's better because people can get to know the real me.'

Miss Velasquez was born four weeks prematurely weighing just 2lb 10oz. Doctors found there was minimal amniotic fluid protecting her in the womb. 'They told us they had no idea how she could have survived,' Miss Velasquez's mother Rita, 45, a church secretary, said.

Dinner: Miss Velasquez says she has to eat high calorie food every 15-20 minutes to keep her energy level high 

'We had to buy dolls' clothes from the toy store because baby clothes were too big.' Doctors could not make a diagnosis so they prepared Miss Velasquez's parents for the worst.

'They told us she would never be able to walk, talk or have a normal life,' said her mother, who has two other children with Miss Velasquez's father Lupe - both children are of average height and weight. Despite the grim prognosis Miss Velasquez's brain, bones and internal organs developed normally but she was always very small.

At the age of two she was still only 15lbs - the same as the average five-month-old baby.

Born this way: Miss Velasquez, aged two, (left) and pictured a couple of years ago, right. The university student has never weighed more than 4.3stone. She went blind in one eye aged four

Born with two brown eyes, when Miss Velasquez was four the right began to cloud and change hue. Doctors then discovered she had gone blind in that eye.

'They still don't know why it happened but now I have one blue and one brown eye.' 

Miss Velasquez's case has fascinated doctors all over the world and she is part of a genetic study run by Professor Abhimanyu Garg at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center in Dallas.

Support: Miss Velasquez with her supportive family, mother Rita, father Lupe, brother Chris and sister Marima. No one else in her family has the syndrome

Professor Garg and his team now believe Miss Velasquez may have a form of Neonatal Progeroid Syndrome (NPS), which causes accelerated ageing, fat loss from the face and body, and tissue degeneration. People with PRS often have triangular and prematurely aged faces with a pointy nose. He said: 'I am aware of a small number of people that have similar conditions to Lizzie but each case is slightly different.

'We cannot predict what will happen to Lizzie in the future, as the medical community are yet to document older people with NPS.

'However Lizzie is lucky to have healthy teeth, organs and bones so the outlook is good. We will continue to study her case and learn from her.'

Miss Velasquez doesn't take medication but she relies on vitamin supplements and iron to stay healthy.  It is thought she should be able to conceive naturally without passing the condition to her children. 

Her new book is out on September 13.

Evoking memories of Diana: Kate makes first visit to mosque - and wears veil and attire like her mother-in-law wore 20 years earlier

The Duchess of Cambridge evoked memories of Princess Diana this morning as she and Prince William made their first ever visit to a mosque. Kate echoed her late mother-in-law in a pale grey dress by Beulah London with a draped head scarf. 

The ethical label is run by the couple's close friend Lady Natasha Rufus Isaacs. As she stepped out of her official car the 30-year-old royal was ushered to a chair to kick off her £185 nude LK Bennett heels, displaying her stockinged feet in line with religious protocol.

In line with religious protocol: Prince William and his wife Kate, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge take their shoes off before entering the Assyakirin Mosque in the centre of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, which they visited this morning on the latest stage of their tour of South-East Asia on behalf of the Queen to mark her Diamond Jubilee

          

Sensitivity: According to Islamic religious law, all visitors to mosques must remove their shoes and women must cover their hair before entering. Kate wore a pale grey dress by Beulah London with a draped head scarf. The label is run by the couple's friend Lady Natasha Rufus Isaacs. She left her  £185 nude LK Bennett heels by the door

Ready to go: Prince William pulls his socks up after removing his shoes, as the Duchess rises from her seat to join him on their guided tour of the city centre mosque

The couple were visiting the Assyakirin Mosque in the centre of Kuala Lumpur, which is the biggest in Malaysia and can host 12,000 for Friday prayers. It's the royal couple's first visit to a mosque anywhere in the world.

Kate's appearance at the mosque evoked memories of Princess Diana, who displayed similar cultural sensitivity on royal visits to mosques in Egypt and Pakistan. The late Princess of Wales appeared in an almost identical outfit on a visit to an Egyptian mosque during a tour of Egypt in 1992. A royal aide said: 'It is the first time that either the Duke and Duchess have visited a mosque. They were keen to do so as it is is an important part of UK culture as well as being the predominant religion here.'

Classic look: Kate's appearance at the mosque echoed that of Princess Diana, who displayed a similar sensitivity while visiting mosques in Egypt, above, and Pakistan

Typical magnetism: Princess Diana visited the Egyptian mosque as part of a royal tour in 1002. Left, a year earlier she is all smiles, dressed in an elegant and demure green dress with a black headscarf, as she visits the great Mogul mosque of Badshahi in Lahore during a tour of Pakistan

As the royal couple climbed the steps of the mosque they were met by Imam of the mosque Ustaz Saiful, director of Islamic religious department Datuk Che Mat Bin Che Ali, chairman of the mosque Syed Abdullah, general manager of facilities Shausudin Ishak and head division development manager Datin Faudziah Ibrahim.

How do you do? The Duchess of Cambridge shakes hands with an official as she arrives for the royal couple's tour of the Malaysian mosque

William first spoke to Datuk Chemat Bin Cheali, saying: 'This is our first time in Kuala Lumpur. It's very nice isn't it.'

Meanwhile Kate made her way down the line-up, smiling and saying 'it's very nice to meet you' with each member of staff in the greeting lineup. Ms Ibrahim presented the duchess with a bouquet of flowers.

The couple then sat down to sign the guest book, with Kate giggling to William 'I should get this right' before she put pen to paper.

As they were guided in to the main prayer area, both were full of questions. William was overheard asking 'So is this where everyone gathers? When is your biggest service? How many people gather here?' When he was told as up to 12,000 on Fridays, he exclaimed: 'Wow. So many!'

Kate spent most of her time talking to Ms Ibrahim. 'It's so peaceful in here,' she commented. They spoke for a good five or six minutes, starting on the subject of the architecture and calligraphy in the main prayer room. 'It's really amazing,' Kate said.

When Ms Ibrahim mentioned a mosque in Istanbul which was a former church (called the Sophia Mosque), Kate expressed a lot of interest: 'Have you been to Istanbul? I'd love to go.

'I've heard of the Sophia but I've never been. You're lucky to have been twice. I would really love to go some day. It looks amazing.'

When Ms Ibrahim mentioned that she had been to Edinburgh University for her undergrad and masters, Kate said 'Oh wow, really? Well it's very cold there compared to here,' and the two both covered their mouths giggling.

They then spoke of Prince Charles' interest in Islamic architecture and how Kate had learned from him. 

'Both Kate and William had done their research,' Ms Ibrahim later told reporters. 'They knew a lot about Islamic architecture.

'The Duchess really appreciated how everything comes together at the mosque - how we include the architecture, the calligraphy, the comfort and the prayer all in to the one procedure.

'It all links together. She really appreciated that.

'When went to the outer prayer area [which is covered with a glass roof] I explained how we had exposed the skyline to show the Petronas Twin Towers.

'I explained that there is a lot of the senses here and that these elements help those praying focus better and if you are feeling uncomfortable or bored you can look up and see the beautiful towers. 'She laughed when I said that.'

Learning experience: During their tour of the mosque, the first they have visited together, both the prince and his wife were full of questions

Well researched: The duchess spent most of the time during the tour speaking to the mosque's head division development manager Datin Faudziah Ibrahim

Both William and Kate were attentive and eager to learn more about the mosque, which had gone under a $10.2million renovation in 2009 to double capacity from 6,000 to 12,000.

'Well the fans keep it nice and cool,' William joked with one of the mosque members who pointed out the dozens of fans in the area.

Kate said 'it's all so impressive' while one of the guides told her of their plans for another extension. Before ending their 20 minute visit, William and Kate watched men of the mosque washing their hands and feet and were explained the meaning behind it.

They then sat down at their original starting point to put their shoes back on and leave. 'Mine are easy,' Kate said to William as struggled to get his right foot in.

Modern outlook: The Palace said the royal couple were keen to visit a mosque as Islam is an important part of UK culture and the main religion in Malaysia

Always a gentleman: Prince William hands his wife her shoes and she slips back into them after the conclusion to their mosque tour

Miss Ibrahim added after their departure: 'It was an honour to meet them. I was so impressed at how much they knew about Islamic architecture. They really knew their stuff.

'Catherine asked me so many questions that I struggle to even remember them all now. She really liked it when I spoke about how families come together during Ramadan.

'I told her that I often have a lot of family visiting and we will make the most of this area. Do some shopping, go and pray together, then maybe go to the park… She really liked that.

'She said family is very important.

'The Duchess looked beautiful and very appropriate in her outfit. It was a great choice.'

Imam Che Mat Bin Che Ali added: 'They were the perfect guests. William said he wished he could stay longer to see the people arriving for the Friday prayers. 'It is one of the busiest days and we usually reach capacity.' Afterwards the couple attended a colourful cultural performance at the Kuala Lumpur Central Park, Kate having shed her veil to show her hair tied back.

Crowd pleasers: The Duke and Duchess are met by crowds of royal fans as they arrive for their walkabout at Kuala Lumpur City Centre park

Exotic: Surrounded by dignitaries and beautifully dressed dancers, the royal couple inch their way past crowds

Pressing the flesh: Kate shakes hands with a well-wisher

Everyone wants a picture: Members of the public train hundreds of cameras on the duke and duchess as they attend a cultural event at the park

Mobbed: Kate looks a little unnerved but her husband keeps smiling as they are surrounded by well-wishers. Crowds of more than 10,000 turned out to catch a glimpse of the royal couple

The couple were met by screaming crowds of more than 10,000 at the nearby park, which sits in the shadow of the city's Petronas Twin Towers - the world's tallest skyscrapers until they were surpassed by Taipei 101 in 2004. Families had been waiting in the 30C heat since 7am to meet the Duke and Duchess, and many were squashed up against railings by the heaving mass of people behind them.

They had brought Union flags, flowers, banners saying 'Welcome' and 'We love you Kate and William', and some had even written the Duchess letters or brought Royal Wedding magazines for the couple to sign. 

Carnival atmosphere: As the duke and duchess wandered around the Kuala Lumpur park they were treated to a colourful cultural performance

Well coiffed: Kate shed her veil on arrival at the city centre park to reveal her hair tied back in an elegant knot

Here, have this: The Duchess of Cambridge meets well-wishers and appears to give away flowers as she walks past the crowds

School friends Ella Morris, seven, Amelia Thesiger, seven, and her sister Izzy, 10, who all go to International Alice Smith School, spoke to Kate. The duchess asked them: 'Are you squashed?'

Amelia and Izzy's mother Jo Thesiger said: 'We got down here early because the girls were so exited to see them.  

'She was so lovely in the flesh, really pretty.'

The couple walked round a circle-shaped area of the park, where they stopped to watch colourful performances by traditional Malaysian musicians, dancers and a fashion show showcasing the work of Malaysian designers. Kate said of one musician playing a string instrument: 'They must have really strong fingers.' Turning to William she said: 'You should have a go', but the Duke declined to join in.

Showcase: The couple walked round a circle-shaped area of the park, where they stopped to watch colourful performances by traditional Malaysian musicians, dancers and a fashion show showcasing the work of Malaysian designers

The British contingent: Ex-pats advertise their presence with Union flag umbrellas as they await the arrival of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge

Royal duties: Prince William eagerly shakes hands with well-wishers fans snap photos in their mobile phones and pocket cameras

On their way round they made a beeline for a girl with a Welsh flag. Elin Howells, 14, is originally from Anglesey but has lived in Kuala Lumpur with her parents Chris and Fiona for eight years. 

She was so excited to see the royal couple she was shaking after their meeting. 'They saw my flag and came over and said "Bore Da" which is "Good Morning" in Welsh,' she said. 

'They asked us which part of Wales we were from and when we said Anglesey they said "Oh, the same place as us".

'It was unbelievable to see them, they were so lovely.'

The couple also stopped to talk to a group of expats including Lynn Maitland, 40, originally from Aberdeen.  'They were asking us who we were and we told them we're expat wives,' Mrs Maitland said.

'William said, "I like it that your husbands are all at work and you are here". 

'I was surprised at how tall he was in the flesh. Kate was beautiful. She said she was finding it awfully hot.'

Urban: The park sits in the shadow of Kuala Lumpur's famous Petronas Twin Towers which were, until 2004, the world's tallest skyscrapers

Flowers for a princess: At the end of the walkabout, Kate is handed a bouquet of flowers by children, including two girl guides

At the end of the walkabout the Duke and Duchess were presented with flowers from children including two girl guides. Cerys Howells, 10, said: 'I gave Kate a scarf and she said I could keep it.

'When I said it was for her she asked me if I had a spare and when I said I did she said "Thank you very much".'

Later there was a security incident when a local Malay fan tried to get into the couple's car to take a picture of them as they prepared to leave the park. The man was bundled away by police and handcuffed.

Story by:   Rebecca ENGLiSH, Royal Correspondent in Kuala Lumpur

Ghana's Foreign Reserve Fall to $4.2 billion

Ghana’s international reserves in gross terms now stands at $4.2 billion as at the end of August 2012, the Bank of Ghana has said. The reserves fell from $4.3 billion as at June 8, 2012 and from $5.4 billion in December 2011. Compared to last year August 2011, the reserves were $4.5 billion. 

“Gross International Reserves was $4.2 billion at the end of August 2012, compared to $4.5 billion in August 2011,” acting Central Bank Governor Dr Kofi Wampah told a press conference in Accra.

Dr Wampah adds “This was equivalent to 2.4 months of import cover.”

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The Sunshine Award

There's this awesome new friend I made very recently. Her name is  ღღČяїstinEεїз  and she owns a really cool blog called My Poetic Isolation. She posts about random things on this blog, including photography and fashion.

 Her posts are very inspirational and I know anyone would see the light that shines through her words. Thanks,  ღღČяїstinEεїз



A Sunshine Blog Award is a prize that is awarded to "bloggers who positively and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere."

The Rules:

(1) Include the award logo in a post or on your blog page

(2) Answer 10 questions about yourself. These are below

(3) Nominate 10 - 12 other fabulous bloggers

(4) Link your nominees to this post and comment on their blogs, letting them know about the award

(5) Share the love and link the person who nominated you.

Questions:

1.What would you most like to change about yourself?

   - Nothing at all

2. What is your theme song?

- For now its Rachel Platten's Work of Art

3.One part of your life memory, action, etc. that you wish you could surgically remove from your brain?

 - None

4. What generation do you wish you had been apart of?

- 90's

5. What was your favorite childhood toy?

- I didn't have a lot of toys while growing up so I wouldn't remember. But I had this flute I loved. We spent at least an hour together and I never saw the flute again. Till today, I think I want a flute to replace the lost one now.

6.What's your favorite housecleaning chore?

- Ironing! 

7. Do you Tweet?

- Yes, I'm still learning to but I do

8. Any goals?

- To be the best blogger and fashion designer of all time

9. Do you really drink margaritas all the time?

- No

10. What is the ugliest car you've ever driven and were embarrassed to be seen in?

- I've never driven a car. I don't know how to anyway.

I nominate these lovely bloggers for the Sunshine Award:

Fashion is art. Life is Fashion

La X Sacha's Wardrobe

modishYou

Walk in Your Own Shoes

My everyday style

Thought of PAPS

The Creation of Beauty is Art.

Wandering Heart

Frontrow

Ma Chic Vie

Bad News For Super-Models: Computer-Generated Fashion Models Better Than Real Thing; Fashion Questions of the Day

Here is an easy prediction: 

"Price of fashion models in advertisements is going to collapse, if indeed the industry survives at all."

Why should retailers pay for fashion models when an advertising department can generate models with the perfect height, weight, breast size, nationality, and complexion for whatever designs they want to promote?

This is Bad News for Super-Models!

MarketWatch describes the setup in 5 computer-generated sales pitches

To save on cost - and perhaps assembly time - Swedish retailing giant IKEA created computer-generated images of its furniture for the new catalogue, rather than hiring a photographer. By next year, a quarter of the scenes depicted in IKEA's print and online advertising will be digitally drawn rather than photographed.

The Wall Street Journal reported last week. In fact, IKEA says it is able to better depict its products with computer images than actual photography.

IKEA is not alone. Hollywood filmmakers increasingly create characters - and not just special effects - with CGI animation. And some fashion lines are finding that it's less expensive to create the perfect specimen digitally than to track down America's Next Top Model. These computer-generated realities may be cheaper, more appealing and more versatile than the genuine articles.

Some other related ideas discussed by the MarketWatch article also include simulated driving of cars, movie special efects, and 3-D dream homes.

Special effects are nothing new. New car models come out only once a year. And I believe most people want real images of homes, not simulated models.

In contrast, clothing changes four times a year with each season and also varies by weight, height, size, nationality, skin color, age, etc. Now the question of the day is:

"Do I care if the person wearing a sweater in a printed image is generated or real? Why would I? How would I know in the first place?"

Supermodels on the magazine covers may or may not go away due to importance of name recognition but every modeling job on down is likely to be eliminated over time.

Virtual models simply have too many advantages for real models to compete effectively. This in turn will pressure wages of even the super-models.

"These days, if you're looking for a career, fashion modelling is not a good choice anymore... We've got to look elsewhere, girls because now the machines are taking our jobs!" 

Courtesy:

Mike Shedlock, Mish